90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Daysstar Niles Valentine’s “father” Mr. Arc didn’t have his best interest at heart when giving him marriage advice.Niles and Matilda Nti’s romancebegan on the internet aftershe suspiciously sent him a DM out of the blue. Niles thought he was getting catfished, but in reality, Matilda seems to have set him up for a bigger scam. Niles has walked into a trap, and it’s too late for him to back out since he will leave for the U.S. as a married man.
Niles’ biggest mistake was to let Matildaknow he couldn’t marry her on his first ever Ghana trip no matter how sweetly she got him to agree to her plans.Niles claimed that his being autisticaffected his ability to communicate clearly with Matilda, but he was also scared of losing her. However, Matilda had a backup plan ready if Niles backed out. She got Mr. Arc to help her out and now,a Green Card is not out of reachfor the lady.
Niles Backed Out Of Marrying Matilda
Niles Could Sense Something Was Wrong
Niles proposed to Matilda on video call before flying to meet her in person on90 Day Fiancé. Yet, Niles was concerned when Matilda started making their wedding preparations in Ghana. Matilda was excited about getting married to the love of her life, but somehowher excitement was the reason why Niles started thinking of it as a problem.He never informed Matilda that he couldn’t marry her on the trip, but did so after he met her in person and made a romantic proposal.
“So I’m not OK at all. I feel like dying right now.”
While he couldn’t get himself to say it, Niles was worried about how he would afford the wedding. He also had his family to worry about, since they were not sure of Matilda’s intentions. It was later revealed that Niles had lost his job just before he flew to Ghana.Niles was not in the state to financially or even emotionally get marriedon the trip. He loved Matilda and wasn’t lying when he told her he’d come back to her. However, Matilda did not react well to Nile’s breaking the news to her.
Mr. Arc Knew Exactly What To Say To Convince Niles
Mr. Arc Forced The Marriage On Niles & Niles Didn’t Even Realize
Eventually, Matilda convinced Mike to participate in a knocking ceremony which was no different from a wedding. Niles was required to pay for food and gifts for practically the whole village. The ceremony alsoinvolved the participation of Niles’ family, but since they didn’t approve of Matilda,she suggested he approach Mr. Arc, the village elder, to represent him. When Niles told Mr. Arc about the knocking ceremony, the latter’s response was shocking. He told Niles that a knocking ceremony without a wedding was not permitted as per their customs and that the ceremony didn’t need to be extravagant.
“Coming to perform knocking and go back, I would never do that. I will never allow that….You have to do everything now, or nothing."
Mr. Arc was upset that Niles had made plans to have a knocking ceremony without consulting him if she considered him a father. He managed to assure Niles that arranging food and gifts for family was not necessary and that a simple marriage would be enough. Niles started questioning Matilda when Mr. Arc told him that Matilda lied to him. However, he did not realize thatMr. Arc bullied him into saying yes to the marriage. He pressured Niles by acting like his father when he’d literally just met him. Niles was confused and Mr. Arc took advantage of it.
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Why Mr. Arc’s Behavior Is Suspicious
Mr. Arc Is A Friend Of Matilda’s Family
Niles should have seen Mr. Arc disapproving of Matilda’s claims about the wedding and knocking ceremony as a red flag because he was her family friend and an elder of her community. To him,Matilda came first, and not Niles who wanted him to be his “father” immediatelyafter meeting him.90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Daysstar Niles was in the dark about Mr. Arc ensured that Matilda was married to Niles before Niles left for the U.S. He wanted the best for Matilda even if it came to sacrificing some money and gifts along the way.
90 Day Fiancé: Before The 90 Daysairs Sundays at 8 p.m. EST on TLC.
90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days
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A deeper look into the lives of couples established in 90 Day Fiancé, 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days is a reality tv/documentary series that follows the potential spouse from a foreign country and their lead-up to their journey to America. The show documents the early days of the relationship across the ocean and the K-1 visa process required for the spouse to live in the new country. Couples battle with culture shock, language barriers, and the opinions of friends and families alike as they prepare themselves to take the ultimate leap.
